Why did she stay? Staying in an abusive relationship sends children the wrong message. I thought my mother was cruel, your father outdid her every time. I am glad you hit his ass back. I love this part of you. More women should fight back when abuse by men. You are a survivor, but don't stay in survival mode too long. You deserve better. I am glad you got something out of this. You became a writer. Are your parents still together? Pain and cruelty never leave us, even when we tell ourselves that we have forgiven our abuser. Your power of words touched my heart. Thanks for sharing.
Because she wasn't educated enough and had no source of income. She came from the background where they taught daughters to stay in pathetic relationships. Yes, I haven't seen a demon like my father ever but then my estranged husband was another sort of fucker. He did many things that I am unable to overcome at times. May be someday I will be able to see the world with its bright light. Yeah, they are still together haha :) I am writing this from my father's abode lol. He is way too scared of me as I do workout lol.... I am kidding... he is 70 now... no fucking strength in bones. :)
That's a lot of physical, mental and emotional abuse. You can never tell what goes behind four walls, otherwise in a happy looking home. Why didn't family, nwighbours including that doctor called the police? What were they waiting for? Even the renters living in the same house didn't say a word? It makes me so angry. People are too scared to step up and offer help. And they are also the same people who talks behind the back that how unfortunate these kids and their mother is. But wouldn't do shit about it.
More courage to you for using pen as your shield. It makes extremely sad and angry for what you and your loved ones had to endure.
Nobody comes for the rescue dear. Here, I have been seeing around females getting beaten up and I cannot help because they don't need my help. They cry, howl and go back to sleep. Nobody can rescue us till the time we want to be rescued. I walked out of my marriage because I asked nobody. That was my strength. Thank you for reading and encouraging my words always. I love you for feeling it so much in your bones. You rock my friend.
"Nobody can rescue us till the time we want to be rescued" - Gurpreet - so much hard-earned wisdom in you.... the truth in this line rings the same for so many things.... even your father needed to be rescued from himself... but I bet he never would realise this...
So fkn challenging when you can "see" and not do.
A friend of mine lost her sister because she went back to her abusive partner... this time, though, he beat her to death... tingles and tears.
She left behind a one-year-old daughter...who is now being raised by her aunty - she is loved and cared for while her father is in jail...
Her sister could not "hear or see" the help being offered before it was too late...
Your presence on the page is very much appreciated.... raising the awareness to stop the madness xx
And this shakes me up as I read your words. I am a highly sensitive person :( I am really sorry that this happened with one of your friend's. Abuse is something nobody wants to talk about even your family members don't support you if you go through something like this. I am not sure how did I make it. Lol. I had a full proof suicide plan but I didn't give up. Or may be God didn't want me to give up. Whatever it was. I am here. I am also not sure from where I got this strength of talking about my setbacks so apparently but I get disturbed because trauma never leaves me. Thank you so much dearest Amy for being around and showering love on me. You are the best and I know you know that :)
Why did she stay? Staying in an abusive relationship sends children the wrong message. I thought my mother was cruel, your father outdid her every time. I am glad you hit his ass back. I love this part of you. More women should fight back when abuse by men. You are a survivor, but don't stay in survival mode too long. You deserve better. I am glad you got something out of this. You became a writer. Are your parents still together? Pain and cruelty never leave us, even when we tell ourselves that we have forgiven our abuser. Your power of words touched my heart. Thanks for sharing.
Because she wasn't educated enough and had no source of income. She came from the background where they taught daughters to stay in pathetic relationships. Yes, I haven't seen a demon like my father ever but then my estranged husband was another sort of fucker. He did many things that I am unable to overcome at times. May be someday I will be able to see the world with its bright light. Yeah, they are still together haha :) I am writing this from my father's abode lol. He is way too scared of me as I do workout lol.... I am kidding... he is 70 now... no fucking strength in bones. :)
That's a lot of physical, mental and emotional abuse. You can never tell what goes behind four walls, otherwise in a happy looking home. Why didn't family, nwighbours including that doctor called the police? What were they waiting for? Even the renters living in the same house didn't say a word? It makes me so angry. People are too scared to step up and offer help. And they are also the same people who talks behind the back that how unfortunate these kids and their mother is. But wouldn't do shit about it.
More courage to you for using pen as your shield. It makes extremely sad and angry for what you and your loved ones had to endure.
Nobody comes for the rescue dear. Here, I have been seeing around females getting beaten up and I cannot help because they don't need my help. They cry, howl and go back to sleep. Nobody can rescue us till the time we want to be rescued. I walked out of my marriage because I asked nobody. That was my strength. Thank you for reading and encouraging my words always. I love you for feeling it so much in your bones. You rock my friend.
"Nobody can rescue us till the time we want to be rescued" - Gurpreet - so much hard-earned wisdom in you.... the truth in this line rings the same for so many things.... even your father needed to be rescued from himself... but I bet he never would realise this...
So fkn challenging when you can "see" and not do.
A friend of mine lost her sister because she went back to her abusive partner... this time, though, he beat her to death... tingles and tears.
She left behind a one-year-old daughter...who is now being raised by her aunty - she is loved and cared for while her father is in jail...
Her sister could not "hear or see" the help being offered before it was too late...
Your presence on the page is very much appreciated.... raising the awareness to stop the madness xx
And this shakes me up as I read your words. I am a highly sensitive person :( I am really sorry that this happened with one of your friend's. Abuse is something nobody wants to talk about even your family members don't support you if you go through something like this. I am not sure how did I make it. Lol. I had a full proof suicide plan but I didn't give up. Or may be God didn't want me to give up. Whatever it was. I am here. I am also not sure from where I got this strength of talking about my setbacks so apparently but I get disturbed because trauma never leaves me. Thank you so much dearest Amy for being around and showering love on me. You are the best and I know you know that :)
Grateful you didn’t and don’t give up.
Love showed for damn good reasons xx
Thanks again and always for being you x
Thank you so much for reading and always encouraging me :)